Chit chat between ME & me.. ;)

At times, I enjoy observing others act; try to analyze their behavioral patterns. Grab silly things from them, try to apply too. In my head, I match any song suiting to the situation & this way I pull myself out from any stress/ anger.

Lately, I just love walking between the nature & turning the time machine back to the old times>>

"Childhood Fantasies",
"Teenage Crushes",
"Blush 4 First Love" :p

Wondering how I went through the 'OSLA' time ;) # (OSLA- One sided lover association)

The thing is observing yourself on how we take steps ahead & simply move on, from time to time. Noticing, on how you struggled the hard times of childhood/teenage life, which might seems silly, today. But the catch is we must always maintain that connection to the past, and yet ceaselessly pull away from it.

Here, I am not asking to stick to the rotten memories & feel regret/gloom about it and whispering to yourself "Kash..aisa hota toh.."
My point is taking right actions today, could be the best apologies for bad actions in the past.
The more anger/ hatred feelings you carry in your heart, for not fulfilling the said promises or expectations, the less capable you are of loving in the present.

"Never regret something that once made you smile….at the time its what you wanted.."
Life is too big so is ur heart.. Simply spread smiles, love around. Forgive, forget & forgo.. :)

Sources of Inspiración..

Creativity and Inspiration tend to present themselves whenever they see fit. I have short listed few sure shot ways to spark the hidden enigma within everyone.. :)

Following ideas might serve few of us in a best manner & for some they may be just words. So my request to all the readers is to follow each point in calm & mind free manner.

Generally, I follow a "MANTRA" to sort out my answers is to Stop thinking. As when I find myself stuck on anything for a long time, I cease my wings from struggling to relaxing mode. The best way to go about is to stop looking for the answer and let the answer finds you.. ;)

>> X factor

The more I workout the more 'Nirvana' I feel. Facts remain constant as they say:
Being active is extremely important & walking can add minutes to your life..
Well I keep Trying to lose weight, but it keeps finding me :p

Jokes apart what my point here is exercise is an important factor to remain fit but whats more imperative is to know your physical state. Do your drill when ever you can and you’ll be more happier & lively. When accosted with a loaded assignments stumping your head, drill harder to release your endorphin.

>> Driving

Living with a conscience is like driving a car with the brakes on; So when you are stressed, go for care free driving; although get alert after rear-viewing the chasing cops ;) The line is to drive out all the negative energy in the air.. :)


>> Music

A genre that makes you fall into. Simply, clear all your consciousness of stresses & fears. Then play your chords. Let the music guide your brain & lets you to bring out a refreshing idea. Trust me its an invaluable tool while relaxing yourself & peeking your soul.. :)


>> Caffeine

This is an absolute last resort for me. I’m of the school of thought that my body is my temple and I keep it free of toxins as often as possible. But, a deadline is a deadline and sometimes I just can’t seem to get my brain out of second gear. This is when I have to head to my local mom & pop coffee shop (I like it better than the chain stores) where I can kick back and get myself a vat of caffeine to soak my brain in. Again, this is a last resort. The other natural methods I offered through brain power and thought control will keep you happier, healthier and more creative in the long run. You don’t want your creativity to become dependant on foreign substances.



>> People Watching

This is my best technique, especially when pouring my mind with some fresh thoughts. Go to any crowded place, empty your mind and subtly observe strangers. This can literally be ANYWHERE that there is a constant flow of new people to observe and absorb. This may seem awkward at first, but 99.9% of the time, nobody will notice what you’re up to and before long, you will probably find yourself quite entertained. Observe people and how they interact with each other, the world around them, and even with themselves. There is no better way that I know of to step outside yourself and get a fresh outlook from others viewpoint.



>> Being Kiddy

Sometimes its lovely to act fool & being notorious. As your dumbness can give chance to others to laugh/smile for a while. So I let my folks make fun of me, cause somewhere on my mind I have feeling of peace of making them happy for the moment. Anyway, the bottom line is to "Be happy & spread happiness.." So keep Spreading Smiles :)



>> Clear Mind to refocus
The greatest obstacle in creating something completely original is the frustration that tends to flare up when you can’t get your imagination to give you its goodies. When you try to force your imagination to generate something on the spot, it sometimes works. When you’re frustrated and you try to force your imagination, it never works. If my methods don’t work for you, I recommend you do what ever it is that works for you in order to take a step back, separate yourself from the problem, do something fun for a while and come back to it with a fresh set of eyes and a positive frame of mind.

Mind over Matter..

When bad things happens to good hearts, they become better instead of bitter. A lot depends on how we take sudden changes in our life. Blaming to thee or thanking him for not making it worse. One should seek solutions for the troubles, rather than inviting melancholic moods. Its not in the prayers, yet its about the prayers. Giving few minutes of thanking God, might do wonders. It just the showers of blessing we need.

An impure mind craves for an impure things. Only a pure mind can do wisdom. Its the condition of one's mind that determines the quality of life. Primarily, everyone is attracted to a good body, rather than a good mind. This ignorance is adversely affecting the life's quality.

Our mind has the capacity to imagine. Which can be good/bad. Our imagination projects reality. An individual expects his/her partner to like this or that. This is a projected reality. But the fact is that the object reality is different. The husband is disappointed with his wife or vice-versa, not for what she is, but for what she should be. External reality does not fit into his subjective reality. Many suffer from this. So, all this happens in a world that is within us, our mind.

So it depends on us whether we choose chaos or cosmos. When the inner world of our mind is orderly, then we will see the external order as being more orderly.

"God gives us problems to humble us; not to tumble us.."

Inspired by: Every Man's Speaking Tree..

Fable..

"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."

It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together. They were covered and protected, but the quills of each wounded the closest companion.

After a while, they decided to distance themselves, and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth. Wisely, they decided to go back to being together.

They learned to live with the little wounds that were caused by their close relationships because the most important part was the heat that came from the others. They were able to survive.

"The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but the one that forms when individuals learn to live with the imperfections and admire the good qualities of others."

Trials & Errors

A German Philosopher once said:
“Its no use living arguing about everything; it is part of human nature to make a mistake now and again.”
Yet, there are people who absolutely insist that they are right even down to the smallest details. We ourselves are often included in this category:
we don’t allow ourselves to make mistakes. All that we achieve with such an attitude is the fear of moving forward – because certain steps call for new decisions whose results are unknown to us.

The fear of making a mistake is the door that locks us up in the commonness: However, if we manage to overcome this fear, we are taking an important step towards our freedom.

Power of acceptance:

In life, there comes a point where you either accept whatever you’re doing and just exist, or stop talking about what you used to be and do something
completely different.
In a Life's journey,our errors are the portals of discovery..

My Guardian Angels..

Parents.. - support system no matter what..

What to write about them words become less when you have to admire them or depict what you feel. Because its all their endless efforts & constant patience to deal with you for making you capable of what you are from within; Their sacrifices, immense love, powerful prayers make you strong & built a protective curve around you.

There is so much to be thankful to & feel grateful to them. As God is just a creator but they are the one who transforms some energy in making you to stand on your own feet. We rarely feel their divine love. For since teenager we are in search of our soul-mate. But we forget the fact, that our real mentor, real soul-mate are they. As they could read your mind & state your thoughts when you are speechless. They get intuitions when you are in any trouble. They are the guiding source of brightness.

Sometimes, on our way of life, we get lost; it doesn't means they'd not done anything to make you stand. It means you have to recollect all those learnings & lessons need to be revised to move ahead with a more firm & strong optimistic attitude.

I don't know why I am writing this post today. I might have sounded like a blabber to few. But I don't care as I am here to post my thoughts.

I owe this one to them...... :) Love you lots.. :) God blesses all!!

Rishta wahi soch nayi.. :p

Theory of love, nowadays hold a very practical meaning rather than emotional healing. ;) It simply demands stay OR leave. If one is not happy in it. They yell "Next" & the show goes on. For today's generation I've basically categorized the 3 stages of "Amore" which at the end demands 'No more' :P

# Made for each other (WOW types :)) : In this stage a boy & a girl knows each other. They impress each other boy dieing to do everything for her & girl carrying her own attitude still inside blushing & falling slowly for him ;) Now they are in a relation. Next step FB's Relationship status updated ;)
Friends & known crowd gets notifications. Both are now observing their reactions by simply watching the number of likes & comments they get. Everyone wishing them luck & happiness. Wow!! simply made for each other..
So boy & girl decides to proceed & quickly step in to the next stage:

# Mad 4 each other (Aww types :*) : Now here, both open their respective Life Box on FB ;)& get Hugs, Kisses, Romantic Date, Love, Rose etc. Friends comments Aww!! Cho chweet!! Baby you both are choo cute & so in love with one another (Which means now its time to upgrade the relationship status ) & which is now changed into committed/ engaged that in a way says "THE END.." :p

But wait.. there is lot now; Previous two stages was the premiere. Baaki kahani toh abhi baaki hai dostoo.. :p What next Duh!! The story continues......

Keeping all the factors constant with a slight downward curve in the financial graph, growth in verbal communication graph that turns out to be as "Khamoshh.." for few days to both the party. You guys still not getting what I mean "Arre bandhu they are now in final stage of MAD AT EACH OTHER" (Oops!! :p) Now this means 'The Real End'

Hence at times letting the companies like Fastrack, etc. make profit by 'Move On..' strategy ;)
Last but not the least 'May the Heer-Ranjha, Laila-Majnu souls R.I.P' :P